Seems you are looking for a package manager that runs on a pc but will not install software on the pc but on a remote raspi. As far as I know such a package manager isn't available. It must run on the machine where to install software.
This is possible with ssh that give you a shell from the remote raspi. In this shell you can run software on the remote raspi, also its package managers apt or apt-get and friends. You may run aptitude on the raspi in the console from ssh. It is a menu oriented package manager in text mode. If you want to run packet managers on the raspi with a GUI you must install the X-server on it for graphical support or use the full version of Raspbian. Then instead of ssh you can connect to the remote raspi from your pc with VNC and run software (packet managers) with GUI on it, for example the Synaptic Package Manager.